Em: *shrug*
Em: *sigh*
Em: too much thinking
Em: part of all this is the aftermath of a breakup
Em: the work part is just ongoing
Me: you re-evaluating yourself?
Em: yes
Em: it's frightening
Em: haunting
Em: i think that's the word
Em: when you re-live the entire relationship and realize that the other is right
Em: other person
Me: eh.. eventually you'll get to the point where you realize the other person was completely retarded